Top Things To Know About False Allegations Of Abuse

By Bob Matteucci
Attorney

In chess, when a player is outmatched they sometimes lash out and flip the board over like a petulant toddler. While this move ensures they never actually lose, the chaos they cause can in no way be considered a win. 

The same thing could be said when someone going through a divorce lashes out by falsely suggesting they are a victim of domestic violence. It’s an attempt to disrupt the process, damage their former partner’s reputation, and gain an unfair advantage. 

Attorney Bob Matteucci doesn’t stand for this type of petty gamesmanship. And neither should you. If you are being accused of abuse, or your soon-to-be-ex is threatening to smear your good name, Bob is here to help.

The Power and Danger of False Allegations of Abuse 

The New Mexico courts take accusations of domestic violence seriously. As they should. These allegations can change the course of a divorce or determine who gets custody of your children, even under our state’s no-fault divorce laws which do not require the disclosure of such personal information. 

That’s why it’s so disturbing when false allegations are used as a legal tactic. In the heat of a custody dispute or high-stakes divorce, some people resort to dishonest claims. And it’s not because they’ve been harmed, it’s because they want to hurt someone else.

False accusers know the system may not punish them for lying, but that their ex could lose custody, get barred from the family home, and see their standing in Albuquerque’s surprisingly tight-knit community crumble. This isn’t a fair fight. This is itself abuse.

Checking Your Ex

Even if you are innocent, being falsely accused of domestic abuse is a serious threat to your life and livelihood. The fallout from these rumors comes on fast, long before there’s a chance to prove your side of the story. So here’s how we counter this attack:

  • Evidence Collection: We gather police reports and medical records, or note their absence. 
  • Witness Interviews: We track down anyone who was present at the time of the alleged abuse. Their statements can confirm your version of events, or expose contradictions in the accuser’s story.
  • Video and Audio Evidence: In today’s digital world, surveillance footage, texts, voicemails, and social media activity can all become part of your defense strategy. Sometimes “Big Brother” comes in handy!

At Matteucci Family Law, we don’t let lies define our clients. And we don’t let dishonest tactics go unchallenged.

Serving Families with Dignity & Compassion

At Matteucci Family Law, we don’t shy away from defending people in the Albuquerque area who’ve been falsely accused of domestic abuse. We know what’s on the line, and are prepared to fight to clear your good name.

Bob Matteucci knows the rules of the game and isn’t afraid to confront dirty tactics head-on.He approaches every case like a chess match—anticipating the other side’s moves, protecting your position, and uncovering the truth. Contact him today to schedule a confidential consultation, and our team will help you take back control of your life, one move at a time.

About the Author
Bob Matteucci is a board certified family law specialist, with a statewide practice in the area of divorce and family law.